Tuesday 26 January 2010
Anonymously connect with people who share your experiences
Anonymously connect with people who share your experiences-- like those who say 'I Want Cybersex'. Read hundreds of true stories, share your own story anonymously, get feedback and comments, chat in the discussion forum, help others, meet new friends, and so much more-- all free. Sign up takes just seconds
Both are good for m and f.
Anyway, flirtomatic.com is OK chatting, and a few peeps on there don't mind cyber (not too many cams). type in ivideochat is another that every now and again you get something good. Both are good for m and f.
one in 10 participants say they're addicted to cybersex, and real-life partners have complained
one in 10 participants say they're addicted to cybersex, and real-life partners have complained
Sunday 24 January 2010
Touch yourself
While there really are no rules when it comes to cyber sex, you're better off throwing yourself into the scene and surrendering to the fantasy. You may feel somewhat ridiculous ultimately masturbating to a computer at first, but if you can give in to the situation, then it can be a great experience.
If she can't see you, but you have a mic, breathe heavily on occasion to let her know that you're into the fantasy. Describe what you're doing to yourself, or, if you're engaging in a fantasy, what you're "doing" to her.
If she can't see you, but you have a mic, breathe heavily on occasion to let her know that you're into the fantasy. Describe what you're doing to yourself, or, if you're engaging in a fantasy, what you're "doing" to her.
If you surrender yourself to the fantasy, the other person can be anyone you want.
no mic, no cam
If you don't have a mic or a cam, then, rather than masturbate with one hand and type with the other, rotate. Let her write while you satisfy yourself, and then, after you climax, you do the writing while she gets off.
As well, not having either of these things will likely result in your having a difficult time engaging with someone who does. As well, you should be wary of who you're engaging with, as there are plenty of men who disguise themselves as women on the Net.
Things to keep in mind:
Remain anonymous -- don't reveal any personal information. Don't make a habit of it -- make an effort to have real relationships with women, away from the Net. If you surrender yourself to the fantasy, the other person can be anyone you want.
If you don't have a mic or a cam, then, rather than masturbate with one hand and type with the other, rotate. Let her write while you satisfy yourself, and then, after you climax, you do the writing while she gets off.
As well, not having either of these things will likely result in your having a difficult time engaging with someone who does. As well, you should be wary of who you're engaging with, as there are plenty of men who disguise themselves as women on the Net.
Things to keep in mind:
Remain anonymous -- don't reveal any personal information. Don't make a habit of it -- make an effort to have real relationships with women, away from the Net. If you surrender yourself to the fantasy, the other person can be anyone you want.
eager beavers for cyber sex
where can you find someone?
There are plenty of places where you can find eager beavers for cyber sex. They include:
Instant messaging IRC chat Online dating services Chat rooms Message boards E-mail
If you already have a partner, you can meet her at an agreed upon destination on the Net or even keep up your cyber sexing throughout the day via e-mail. It's up to you.
how do you do it?
When it comes to cyber sex, you may want to invest in a microphone, at the very least. That way, the woman you're getting it on with can hear your excitement and know that she's turning you on. As well, there's nothing more difficult than being incredibly excited and having to type with one hand.
Talk or write
Whether or not you have a microphone, you will need to be creative with your language. Imagination is the key to successful cyber sex. However, the language you use will depend on the other person. Some women want nasty, vulgar language, while others prefer the "we're walking on the beach and you look over my way," kind of lingo. Feel her out before you start engaging in the fantasy talk.
If you don't have a mic, don't type things like "gasp, gasp" or "oh yeah, baby, yeah!" As well, being a good speller helps a lot, especially if the other person is.
Here's how to start off the session, and what to avoid at all costs
There are plenty of places where you can find eager beavers for cyber sex. They include:
Instant messaging IRC chat Online dating services Chat rooms Message boards E-mail
If you already have a partner, you can meet her at an agreed upon destination on the Net or even keep up your cyber sexing throughout the day via e-mail. It's up to you.
how do you do it?
When it comes to cyber sex, you may want to invest in a microphone, at the very least. That way, the woman you're getting it on with can hear your excitement and know that she's turning you on. As well, there's nothing more difficult than being incredibly excited and having to type with one hand.
Talk or write
Whether or not you have a microphone, you will need to be creative with your language. Imagination is the key to successful cyber sex. However, the language you use will depend on the other person. Some women want nasty, vulgar language, while others prefer the "we're walking on the beach and you look over my way," kind of lingo. Feel her out before you start engaging in the fantasy talk.
If you don't have a mic, don't type things like "gasp, gasp" or "oh yeah, baby, yeah!" As well, being a good speller helps a lot, especially if the other person is.
Here's how to start off the session, and what to avoid at all costs
How do I find women to have cybersex with?
One of the most common questions in my e-mail is some variation on this: "How do I find women to have cybersex with?"It's a good question. People still seem to believe the internet is full of millions of lonely, socially inept dweebs desperately masturbating with other lonely, socially inept dweebs pretending to be porn stars.
I suppose I can't blame them. Few writers bother to look beyond the fear to find other stories about sex in virtual spaces. And what television news program wants to report on normal people having a great time visiting and flirting and possibly sharing orgasms -- normal people who then log off and go about the rest of their normal lives?It's true that cybersex is not for everybody, and it can be emotionally dangerous even if you're not in a committed offline relationship and risking infidelity. Some cyber partners even end up leaving the virtual space to get married. Ack!But it still irks me that it's such a shock when I explain that having sex online does not mean it's your last resort. It could just mean you'd rather engage and relate than zombie-out in front of the television.What people don't realize is that it's hard to find good sex online if you're a woman, and hard to find sex at all if you're a man. You can't just log into a webcam community and get laid, any more than you can join an online role-playing game and hook up without making any further effort.You have to spend some time, talk to people, form relationships, and maybe -- just maybe -- sex will happen. Cybersex is a woman's world, didn't you know?A man who not only respects that but enjoys it is a man who will not lack for online sexual partners. And if you're not willing to make the investment, go to a cam-girl site and pay to play instead.Because I've been an observer but not sexually active online for the past few years, I called up Kirk (not his real name), an administrator in an adults-only webcam community. We had a private webcam conversation that confirmed what I already knew: Nothing but the tech has changed since my days as Aphrodite.Kirk says his main responsibility as room admin is "to kick out the creeps."Minors and spammers are booted without question; so is anyone who starts "directing" -- telling other people what to do on their cameras -- or harassing other members, particularly the women. Continually asking "anyone want to go private?" or trying to lure premium members to free instant messengers is also grounds for bouncing.It sounds harsh, but it's what keeps a core of 30 or more regulars returning to the room, week after week.
"Women have told me they like to come to our room because we don't mess around," he says.Getting booted is not the end of your cybersex chances. You're banned for 24 hours, but anyone willing to respect the community standards is welcome to try again.
I suppose I can't blame them. Few writers bother to look beyond the fear to find other stories about sex in virtual spaces. And what television news program wants to report on normal people having a great time visiting and flirting and possibly sharing orgasms -- normal people who then log off and go about the rest of their normal lives?It's true that cybersex is not for everybody, and it can be emotionally dangerous even if you're not in a committed offline relationship and risking infidelity. Some cyber partners even end up leaving the virtual space to get married. Ack!But it still irks me that it's such a shock when I explain that having sex online does not mean it's your last resort. It could just mean you'd rather engage and relate than zombie-out in front of the television.What people don't realize is that it's hard to find good sex online if you're a woman, and hard to find sex at all if you're a man. You can't just log into a webcam community and get laid, any more than you can join an online role-playing game and hook up without making any further effort.You have to spend some time, talk to people, form relationships, and maybe -- just maybe -- sex will happen. Cybersex is a woman's world, didn't you know?A man who not only respects that but enjoys it is a man who will not lack for online sexual partners. And if you're not willing to make the investment, go to a cam-girl site and pay to play instead.Because I've been an observer but not sexually active online for the past few years, I called up Kirk (not his real name), an administrator in an adults-only webcam community. We had a private webcam conversation that confirmed what I already knew: Nothing but the tech has changed since my days as Aphrodite.Kirk says his main responsibility as room admin is "to kick out the creeps."Minors and spammers are booted without question; so is anyone who starts "directing" -- telling other people what to do on their cameras -- or harassing other members, particularly the women. Continually asking "anyone want to go private?" or trying to lure premium members to free instant messengers is also grounds for bouncing.It sounds harsh, but it's what keeps a core of 30 or more regulars returning to the room, week after week.
"Women have told me they like to come to our room because we don't mess around," he says.Getting booted is not the end of your cybersex chances. You're banned for 24 hours, but anyone willing to respect the community standards is welcome to try again.
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