Wednesday 6 October 2010

Building An Affair Proof Marriage After Infidelity

Building An Affair Proof Marriage After Infidelity: "Your world has been devastated by marital infidelity, but both you and your spouse are working very hard on repairing the damage. The next step in the healing process is to start building an affair proof marriage that will prevent this sort of devastation from ever happening again in your relationship.

Let's face it, most affairs or betrayal generally do not occur because one person deliberately sets out to hurt their spouse or destroy their marriage. An affair usually happens progressively - they may start out innocently enough but then one lie, however little, evolves into a huge explosion over time that can tear your marriage to shreds."

Tiger Woods Still to Hurdle More Challenge Due to Infidelity | Seer Press

Tiger Woods Still to Hurdle More Challenge Due to Infidelity | Seer Press: "As divulged by RadarOnline.com, Tiger Woods still has issues to tackle because of his infidelity to partner Elin Nordegren.
The hooker who has claimed that she was the 15th mistress of Woods, Devon James alleges that she has a sex tape which runs for 62 minutes with the world’s highest paid athlete. With her husband, Nick James, she has revealed that she has already sold it in a deal. As expected, she foresees to gain millions.
RadarOnline.com further confirms that the husband was quoted saying they are going to sell the said video through the internet and they will benefit from half of what is earned. Additionally, merchandiser husband says that the website will kick off soon starting off with a teaser. There are even promotional strategies being used to entice buyers."

Ricky Hatton hit with infidelity scandal | Bettor.com

Ricky Hatton hit with infidelity scandal | Bettor.com: "Ricky Hatton hit with infidelity scandal

Ricky “The Hitman” Hatton has been hit with another devastating scandal.
In a move that looks alarmingly like its prequel, Emma Bowe, an Irish women’s boxing champion, has revealed details of an affair with Hatton.
Last month Bowe shocked the world when she submitted a video of the British fighter snorting cocaine in a hotel washroom to The News of the World. She stated that she went public with the information for Hatton’s well-being and because she was “worried about him.” Immediately after the video went public Hatton admitted to the incident and entered rehabilitation. After a meet with the British Boxing Board of Control he was stripped of three of his professional boxing licenses.
Bowe came out with revelation of the 11-month affair and said that Hatton even said he would leave his fiancée, Jennifer Dooley, to be with her."

Sunday 3 October 2010

What is DMT doing in our bodies?

What is DMT doing in our bodies? He wonders why the brain so actively seeks it out, transporting it across the blood-brain barrier and very quickly digesting it. He hypothesizes that DMT is produced by the pineal gland—what Descartes termed "the seat of the soul" and what he calls the "spirit gland"—and is released during naturally occurring psychedelic states, including childbirth, the dying process, dreams, and a variety of subjective mystical experiences. Thus, Strassman posits that human beings have been designed with a biological mechanism that enabling us to have spiritual experiences.

The research that Strassman describes, conducted at the hospital of the University of New Mexico between 1990 and 1995, includes a dose-response study, a tolerance study, and mechanism-of-action studies to determine which brain receptors mediate DMT’s effects. Sixty volunteers participated. There was no development of tolerance. Findings were inconclusive as to which serotonin receptor regulates DMT’s effects. Throughout the studies, Strassman monitored the effects of the drug on heart rate, pulse, hormone levels, and body temperature. For some subjects, he used an EEG or magnetic resonance imaging head scan to measure which brain sites were most active during a DMT experience. Throughout his report, he is sensitive to issues of set and setting; his orientation as a clinician is evident in the way he counsels volunteers through their psychedelic sessions and in his thoughtful follow-up with them.

Strassman emphasizes his frustration with trying to fit his spiritual questions into a biomedical research design. His ultimate goal was to establish the safe use of psychedelics under supervision and eventually shift to psychotherapeutically oriented studies. Unfortunately, Strassman never undertook his next wave of research—which was to involve work with the terminally ill—because of a multitude of obstructing factors, including family issues, lack of collegial support, criticism by his Buddhist community, the complexity of working with volunteers, ethical dilemmas regarding the use of psychedelics with the terminally ill, and questions as to the long-term benefits of psychedelics.

A major portion of the book is devoted to detailed descriptions of what the volunteers encountered during their sessions. These include the exploration and resolution of personal psychological issues; out-of-body states in which people experienced their own deaths; a variety of mystical states in which volunteers experienced a unifying presence of God within and without the self and a felt sense of love as the underlying fabric of the universe; and—surprising to Strassman—a large number of reports of contact with alien beings of various kinds doing intrusive experiments and/or healing work. Most volunteers had positive experiences, but there were some scares and some "bad trips." One volunteer nearly had a heart attack because DMT normally leads to a flight-or-fight physiological response. Another older volunteer almost went into shock. One young man had a traumatic vision of being raped by alligators. Despite some of the beautifully uplifting experiences of many of the subjects, Strassman was disappointed to find in his follow-up interviews that the experiences did not typically produce real change in the volunteers’ lifestyles in terms of their behavior. None began psychotherapy or a spiritual discipline to further integrate his or her insights. However, several reported a stronger sense of self, less fear of death, and a greater appreciation of life (benefits Strassman may underemphasize).

After allowing himself to venture creatively into hypotheses that DMT allows contact with dark matter or parallel universes, Strassman argues that DMT must have provided an adaptive advantage to our ancestors in allowing access to alternate states of consciousness and thus perhaps greater problem-solving abilities and greater creativity. Clearly, there is a need for further research into many of Strassman’s theories, and he ends by describing ways to investigate the role of the pineal gland in DMT production and how DMT might be involved in dreams, childbirth, meditation, and mystical visions as well as in mediating the exit of consciousness from the body. He also describes his ideal psychedelic research center and the best use of this research to promote the highest good, research one hopes Strassman himself may conduct one day.

This book will be of great use both to researchers and clinicians with an interest in spiritual/mystical issues and/or in psychedelics as well as to laypeople. It will undoubtedly also raise concern among those who worry that Strassman is promoting or condoning the widespread use of psychedelic drugs. However, he is quite clear about possible negative effects, urges close medical supervision, and questions the long-term beneficial effects of psychedelics without the support of concurrent therapeutic work or disciplined spiritual practice. Strassman clearly sees a beneficial use for these chemicals and expresses anger about the ways that psychedelic research has been mishandled in the past and is hampered as a consequence.
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